I am not a parent yet not a mama nor a papa does that mean I cannot access my wholeness without a live in trigger?
Any life change will create a doorway of opportunity for us to scrutinise scan and survey our landscape of us.
How? Change calls upon a response, be it:
- action or
- non action
One of the many life changes we experience is parenthood. You can be a parent without actually giving birth to the child. But we all know this right? Skip the explanation and we move on.
So, how you respond to any changes will give you a snapshot of where you are in the continuum of wholeness or rather how well you know yourself and all that stands in your way to co create your reality. They say, the quantum physicists, that we are all seeing different realities. Can you believe this? Yet it makes sense when you are your thought. So your thought will create waves and ripples though the atmospheric strata and you will perceive that which you create.

Your creation though is a reflection of you as a sum of all of your experiences since conception including a blueprint you came with which we can call the consciousness. This if you like, is a tiny chip that has a record of all of you on there. And the you on there is the spirit ensouled, in other words, the “holy spirit” or “universe” or “spirit” in its individuate form that has been manifest.
The data the chips holds is inter alia:
- sum of your timelines
- experiences
- lessons
- goals
- visions
- life purposes
There will be more.
All of what the chip has on record and then the experiences that your current body will have, continue to shape your manifestations through your own mindset. Your mindset comes from the sum of all of the above.
Accessing spirit is not enough. Knowing you are a soul and more is also not enough. You know when that is not enough when you:
- don’t know how to create a working partnerships between all of your parts
- still feel fragmented
- have a longing which you may or may not be able to point to what
- having trouble manifesting your true life’s purpose
- find it difficult to hold conversations
- hide away from those that trigger you
- find comfort in little communities
- feeling unsafe and vulnerable
- feeling at odds with material life
- are at the behest of the latest motivation whether it is a podcast a meme or a friend
- are struggling to fully manifest abundance despite doing it all “right”
- are chanting mantras meditations but these have become habitual and you are still stuck in the same patterns or maybe similar patterns different context
Once again the list above is just a sampler a taster into what sort of things can point to not feeling a wholly you.
“A small caveat – a “wholly you” does not obviate a need to explore emotions; you will still have the gamut of them – only difference is – you will fully know their root and how to respond.”
Embrace life changes as opportunities to delve deeper into your self, your origin and originality. Whilst we say we are all equals in how we came to be including our original creator, we carry with us a chip that is individuate and unique to our ensouled spirit. You will have personalised spirit, and, it is in this personalisation that you can co create with the spirit of the whole as a wholly part.

The tricky bit is that whilst the whole spectrum of infinity is at your fingertips, you rarely if at all access this. What is limiting this is that in order for you to fully access this, you must be it.
Infinite thought reflects infinity.
To bring yourself to that point you will first have to:
- recognise that you are fragmented (pretty darn hard to do with egos like ours!)
- take steps that will bring you the awareness of the fragmented parts
- call the fragments of you back home
Ah so it’s that simple – yep it can be.

Steps into our wholly self can start with a yoga class; a good book to read; an inspirational story so on and so forth. But when this leaning becomes the crutch of you so that you vehemently refuse to get out of your comfort zone despite the pointers, you will have gained an extra layer to work off. Yep.
Making our tools our crutches can be risky business if your business is YOU.
Once you recall your fragments back home the next step is to integrate and then use the new machinery of you like a newly refitted car. With practice you will learn how to be a whole version of you, and spot any old patterns nip them in the bud until it becomes a way of being for you to be the wholly version of you. You know you have arrived when you:
- exude a sense of neutral
- feel at ease
- FEEL
- feel vulnerable yet creative
- feel FULL and satiated
- it takes tiny appreciation of life around to make you animated
As ever the list is non exhaustive. Drop us a line and share your feelings of wholeness each time you have lived whole.