As soon as we decide aha so this is what I want we start to want to own that idea and then hold on so tight that our whole life starts to revolve around it. Why? Can we look at something admire it without the need to want to make it ours? Or is ownership a hard wired human tendency?
We teach our children to own. We want to own. We are not happy with living on rent because it’s not the done thing, doesn’t give us a sense of security, isn’t the grown up thing to do, and it feels unsettling for some! What if your perception of how your life is came simply from you and your own sense of self as opposed to any notion outside of you to make you feel a certain way? Wow, that would almost make that feeling of safety and security permanent and not subject to any conditions being met. So so you can love a house and not want to own it.
You can feel at home in a tent as you would in a mansion. All because you feel at home in yourself and are indifferent to your circumstances.
After all, your life situation is just that, and not definitive of who you are. Well, to some extent that since you are also what you attract including your life situation.
When we have a desire a longing and a thought that we hold on to, very tightly, we have just creating a feeling of LACK. We only hold tight to something we think might get away! You want a house? Give up and walk away from that thought after setting the intention with emotion and attention.
The last part of the law of manifestation is letting go and surrender. And this includes situations when you want something you know it’s coming but wonder when it’s coming. That focus on the time creates a spiral of lack and again a hold on what you want without releasing it to fly off into the space and the void that carries creative manifesto.
If you really want something, learn to surrender to the universe and let go. It will happen if that’s what you have in your blueprint to attract.
Competition is another example of holding tight that creates a lack loop. As is marketing or any other strategy to hold on to whatever it is that we believe is giving us safety and security including a ticket to win the race to survive, stay afloat and on top.
Make a list of any wants needs desires right now. Have a look at your life situations. Do you hold on to anything a little tight and this includes values thoughts principles. We almost live to limit ourselves through so many self imposed bars that the openness and living with fluidity goes.
Life flows if you let it.